I always thought I knew exactly who I was, where I was going and what I wanted. But it was more of a case of being who everyone else wanted me to be. So I decided to do things my way and to hell with those that didn't like it, I was tired of trying to prove myself. I lost a lot of friends because I followed my instincts and even though my friends are less these days, the few friends I do have are exactly who need to be in my life at the moment. Not only that, I have found that every phase of one's life is a new phase of self-discovery. I learned that for the first time when I fell pregnant and of course more recently, when I became a mommy... and I will continue to look forward to learning about myself, changing to adapt and the new phases that my life is yet still to enter.