Topic: energy for my son

[frayja]

Hi guys i would like to ask you to please send some energy to my son and i will do a spell as wel to encourage speech, i got it from CM, i know i can tell you guys because you will not look down on me, i dont know why i am so stressed out about this, but he is getting speech classes every Monday, they say he is on a 2year 9month level end he is turning 4 end of October, i know its just that he struggles to comunicate, but he is really clever he under stands very well but cant express.I am just telling because i want to get it out, and its really sad for me, i think all of us wants our children to be the best, i dont preasure my son, i just need to talk to him alot so that he will listen and speak, but the other thing the reason for the energy is, that i need to go test his ears to see it he does not have a problem there, so i know it will go well and with your energy and mine i know the test will go very well.Thank you for reading
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[Rowan]

Shame Frayja, sounds stressful!

Will send him some love

[Oldsoul]

Sending. 

[Bee]

Our babies can make is stress, I'm sure he'll be fine and catch up in no time with the extra attention that's gonna be given to him.  Just take it one day at a time and try not to stress too much about it. 

I found that reading to my children and teaching them rhymes and songs helped a lot.  I made bath time and 10 minutes before bed story and song time, even at dinner we sing the roof off.  Lol, I'm one of those mums that doesn't care about sounding crappy, I do it loud and proud. 

[SoaringSpirit]

Shame Frayja, I will definately send. I'm glad you told us, its certainly nothing to be ashamed of, as far as I know, there are a lot of genius types out there who had some or other kind of learning problem or other kind of 'impediment'.

Just keep working with him, that will help and he'll really enjoy the time you spend with him too so that will help his esteem as well.

[Nefol Fey]

Strength to you frayja, I know what it is like to have a child that is a bit behind in one area- it can be stressful.

[Crystal Mantis]

Strongs to you frayja 

[SilvrDragon]

Strength to you frayja. Will send energy.

[frayja]

Thank you so much every one its nice having you guys as friend who understand, and some of you that had this tipe of stress, i am going to work with him every day, he gets frastrated a lot, but i will take it slow, and i am going to let him do karate as well the lady there say its really good for children and help them develop and ruan likes it alot, i think that will help him consentrate as well.
Blessings to all of you

[Rowan]

Karate is awesome for kids, it helps them instill discipline as well.

i dont know if this will help, but my brother only starting talking very late, and it was because he didnt have to . The whole family would give him stuff if he pointed to it, and his sisters figured out his body language so he never needed to talk.

Eventually they had to make a point of not giving him stuff unless he asked for it properly

[nightmoon]

Fraya, by sharing you relieve some of your anxiety - which is always good - I will send some energy, but don't stress over this too much until you have had his hearing checked.  My grandson turns 3 the end of August and has only now started talking properly and using short sentences.  What I did was as Rowan said, not give him anything unless he asked properly and stopped mom, dad and his older brother from interpreting for him and also told them to drop their habit of finishing the few sentences he tried for him.

[frayja]

thank you for all your help and advice will take al of them, going to a free karate class next week so that he can see what he will be doing, he did get karate classes but it was just play at hes other school, this school his going to is really good and they are well known. The docter said today that before i go test his ears, we first have to take out his (magels) dont know what its in english lol sorry, because he has so much sinus proplems that all that is pushing to his ears and that is why he cant here properly, sorry for my spelling today, had a not so nice day really tired. So next week that is going to take place taking that stuff out and then he will not get so sick any more and ear infections, so we will see how that goes .

[SoaringSpirit]

I think mangels is tonsils....

If they suggest putting grommets in his ears, please do lots of research and get another opinion at least before going ahead with it, cause I know sometimes that can cause problems.

[Bee]

Aww shame, next week?? Poor baby!  Jip, a lot of little problems will disappear when they take his tonsils out, I wish I can take my children so they can have theirs removed.   

[SilvrDragon]

I hope the tonsil removal goes well and does solve all the little issues.

Have to confess my tonsillitis gave up on me when I refused to take them out and refused to take antibiotics. Eventually went away for good.